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Does a Private School Have to Accept Your Child?

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Choosing a School

Choosing a School

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Question: Does a Private School Have to Accept Your Child?
Does a private school have to accept your child? Private schools can accept any candidate they choose to accept. Public schools have to accept all applicants subject to basic residency requirements.
Answer: Private schools can accept or reject any candidate. Acceptance or rejection is based on the school's rules and standards, not the rules and standards of an education authority or local school district.

A mother recently wrote me about the private school to which she was seeking admission for her children. The school had rejected their applications yet again. She was annoyed enough to write and ask me what recourse she might have. Were there federal or state laws which could be invoked? I pointed out that private schools don't take public funding for exactly those reasons. They want nothing to curb their independence. They don't have to accept anybody. Private schools are legally free to accept whichever applicants they wish to accept.

What Are Your Options?

You have several options in this situation. Basically it boils down to choosing the right private school for your child. That is not easy to do. Since the stakes are simply too high to try to do everything yourself, hire a professional. The consultants who belong to the IECA are experts. They offer a wealth of experience for a very modest fee. While they can't guarantee results, they know their schools and will do everything humanly possible to provide their clients with some solid choices which will match schools with the child.

"Don't Put All Your Eggs in One Basket!"

Cervantes offers good advice. Unless you are guaranteed that your child will be accepted at St. Braithwaite's-in-the-Valley, don't chance it by applying there exclusively. Apply to at least three or more schools. Make sure one of them is a safe school, in other words, be sure your child can get in to that school.

Here are some suggestions for choosing a school:

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